Would you rather love the more, and suffer the more ; or love the less, and suffer the less ? That is, I think, finally, the only real question. First love has lifelong consequences, but Paul doesn't know anything about that at nineteen. At nineteen, he's proud of the fact his relationship flies in the face of social convention. As he grows older, the demands placed on Paul by love become far greater than he could possibly have foreseen.
Julian Barnes
Julian Barnes is a renowned British author best known for his novel "The Sense of an Ending," which won the Man Booker Prize in 2011. His writing style is characterized by its philosophical depth, sharp wit, and keen observations of human nature. Barnes has made significant contributions to contemporary literature.